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Wednesday, 20 July 2011
Last blogged @ 06:09 In Relation Ships.. Get to know your captain! lol  I wanted to build a little on my previous post. I think that the greatest relationships are grown from the seed of beautiful friendships. When your just friends with someone, there is no craziness involved. You just hang with that person, talk to them, play video games together, discuss what books you two are reading, you are there for each other, you learn from each other and its just real simple. No craziness stuff. Plain, straight like that. You get to really know the ins and outs to a friend. This is because you guys arent out to date, meaning you guys act yourself and try not to put the best foot forward to impress the other person. I cant tell you HOW MANY times i witness people who go out to dates, really like the person and just 1 year into the relationship, they are like “who the fuck am i dating, i thought he was this and i thought he was that but hes really a asshole” lol See, this is because BOTH of you put on a front to try and impress each other but after a while that front fades away with getting comfortable with that person. Being JUST FRIENDS builds a better foundation for a relationship. Rushing into a relationship is truly unwise, to me at least. I know everyone wants someone to come home to, someone to love and receive love from in return, we all want the fly gifts for our birthdays and valentines, i know i know, but think of it like this : you can have a halfass relationship now, and have a couple of them to get you through the years, or you can wait, really search for who your looking for and find them for a long lasting healthy relationship. Which is it going to be? there are plenty of guys and girls that are good looking, and many are easy as... well you catch my drift.. ;p anyway...--> The other option: You can find the guy or girl who proves to be above average, and is educated, classy, funny, cute, charming, loving, caring and all of the other great adjective you can think of in ONE. Patience brings us what we want and desire. Rushing puts you in positions to think with your emotions and just react, which never really proves to do any good unless you are using instinct. Really knowing the person you CHOSE to fall in love with makes all the difference down the road. you learn to know what pisses them off, so you dont do it. Its not trial and error because you already know. You know about their past and what hurts them, so you make sure you dont do it. you know about everything, so you can move away from the past and help that person achieve great things for their future. “Relationships’ have seemed to lose their meaning. A relationship to me is 2 people who know each other, respect each other, are tolerent of one another, trust one another with their LIVES, are the best of freaking friends, and who truly want to see the other person achieve great things and join them in that journey even when the road is rough. --> Thats what a HEALTHY relationship should be. You cant find all that in knowing someone for a week or just a couple... 0 Comments |
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